Ukusuka Ekunene Yokuhlala, Ngasekunene ukuya Wanikela Budlelwane, nazi ezintandathu amalungelo abafazi kwi-India anelungelo."Xa watshata, umfazi kufuneka kuphela shiya yakhe kwi-imithetho' ndlu xa yena senziwe kuba yakhe yokugqibela rites."Oku cliched umgca rhoqo asetyenziswa yonke imihla soaps kwaye iimifanekiso ukuba denote i-unwavering loyalty kwaye ukuzinike i-Indian umfazi kulindeleke ukuba bonisa umyeni kwaye yakhe kwi-imithethoXa oko kungenzeka tempting ukuba yonke imihla oku njengo-mere melodrama, enomda kuphela zethu i-TV screens, inyaniso kukuba kude kube ngoku ngakumbi chilling. Ebusika ka, yena iqinisiwe i oku kwenze ukuba kunye indoda yakhe abazali wayebanyulile kuba yakhe umntu ukusuka ngaye yena waba phezulu hopes kwaye amaphupha kuba yakhe elizayo. Kokuba a glplanet honeymoon, uzalise kunye romanticcomment dinners kwaye nkqu a cruise. Ngexesha yakhe indoda yakhe, wayigcina kuye kwaye waba agciniwe, Jyotsna chalked kuya ezantsi newness kubudlelwane. Yena babekholelwa ukuba nangona bekuya kuthabatha ixesha, isibini ingaba ukukhula ukuba uthando nentlonipho omnye komnye, mhlawumbi nkqu kwenzeka ukuba ngamnye ezinye njengoko umphefumlo mates, someday. Emva honeymoon, duo wabuyela ekhaya kwaye onayo emva yonke imihla grind babo imisebenzi. Jyotsna ingaba eagerly ekhangele phambili bechitha ixesha kunye umyeni kwi-evenings, kodwa wayeza rhoqo kuza emva kwexesha, staying phezulu ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuba nidle isidlo sasemini, phambi retiring ngobo busuku. Jyotsna nkqu kwakucwangcisiwe outings kunye nabahlobo kwaye relatives, hopes yokufumana umyeni waphuma endlwini. Kodwa umyeni ingaba rhoqo landula, citing umsebenzi iingxaki. Izicwangciso ye-obligatory i-wedding dinners kunye relatives kakhulu, zange materialized. I-real iingxaki, nangona kunjalo, waqala ngonyaka kamva, xa Jyotsna wanika wokuzalwa a baby kubekho inkqubela. Bobabini umyeni kwaye lukayise umthetho owenziwe zabo disappointment ezaziwayo. Umyeni wala nkqu bamba yakhe intombi, kakhulu ngaphantsi zikhathalele wakhe. Jyotsna waba constantly reminded le"worthless inkcitho"ukuba umyeni kuya kufuneka ukuba incur kwi-ukukhulisa a kubekho inkqubela. Yena wathi, nkqu wakhe ukuba securing i abancinane kubekho inkqubela ke kwixesha elizayo waba yakhe jonga-xhaka. Izinto bathabatha i-jika kuba worse xa Jyotsna learnt malunga umyeni ke extra-marital imicimbi. Kwakunjalo xa yena kujongenwe kuye malunga nayo ukuba verbal kwaye udlakathiso ngokwasemzimbeni waqalisa. Jyotsna waqalisa devote zonke wakhe amandla ombane ukukhulisa intombi yakhe. Yakhe ubomi revolved jikelele wakhe nentombi kwaye kamsinya, umyeni wanika phezulu zonke pretense a ndonwabe umtshato. I-duo bema ke ngaphandle kunye, kunye umyeni nkqu refusing ukuthatha yakhe kwi-ofisi amaqela nosapho imisebenzi. Jyotsna waphila iminyaka eli ubomi limbo, kunye scarred umzimba kwaye eyaphukileyo kuba ngaphezu elinesibini leminyaka. Xa yakhe kuphela inkxaso endlwini, umama mthetho, wadlula, Jyotsna kugqitywe ukuba ndigoduke. Ngomhla we-kokubuya ukusuka yakhe umzali ke ekhaya, wayengomnye greeted nge locale ucango. Umyeni ezifanelekileyo wakhe ukuba babeza ngaphandle town kwaye ukuba yena kufuneka ukuzithwala kwindlela abaphila ne yakhe abazali ukusukela babo umtshato yaba sham nakanjani na. Siganeko ekhohlo Jyotsna shaken Wakhe abazali beza kuye rescue, umnikelo wakhe unconditional uthando nenkxaso ngelixa yena struggled ukufumana yakhe ubomi kwi irekhodi. Yena ngoku besilwa yakhe kwi-nemithetho inkundla kuba amalungelo yena zange wacela. Ngexesha kakhulu kukuba wathi malunga uxanduva ukuba umtshato kuzisa, sisebenzisa rhoqo cwaka malunga amalungelo ukuba umthetho uvumela kwethu."Njengoko umcimbi ka-routine, wonke umfazi abe apprised ka yokuba, njengoko kuchaziwe umthetho, baya anelungelo onke amanqaku, movable okanye bengagungqi wafumana ngexesha babo umtshato kwaye unako nkqu ubango lesondlo. Nangona babe nokufumana usapho inkxaso okanye zibe kwi-immense yeemvakalelo zakho trauma, bamele phambili sizigqatse bafune isondlo iziqu zabo kwaye kuba umntwana wabo ukusuka kwinkundla. Kubalulekile kubo ukuba bagcine ngokwabo apprised malunga uzinzo kwizimali zabo umyeni, kuquka iinkcukacha njenge irhafu-lifike, ii-akhawunti yebhanki kwaye ngenyanga eyilwayo,"utshilo Losapho Sudarshan Ray, renowned matrimonial lawyer kwi-Delhi. Ilungelo Streetman - umfazi sele ubunini amalungelo zonke yakhe steradian, oko kukuthi izipho kwaye imali enikwe wakhe phambi nasemva umtshato. Ubumnini amalungelo steradian belong ukuba ibe ngumfazi, nokuba kunganjalo wabeka kwi-custody ka-umyeni okanye kwayo kwi-imithetho. Ilungelo yokuhlala - umfazi unelungelo neplanethi abahlala kuyo kwi-matrimonial ikhaya apho umyeni ahlala khona, enoba nokuba kungenxa i-ancestral indlu, edibeneyo usapho indlu, mna-acquired indlu okanye rented indlu.
Ilungelo a wanikela budlelwane - Hindu umyeni ayikwazi kufumana i-affair okanye enye kwenye kubekho inkqubela ngaphandle kokuba uya ngokusemthethweni divorced.
A umyeni kusenokuba ibe igcwalisiwe ka-ukrexezo ukuba ukho kwi budlelwane watshata nomnye umfazi. Umfazi wakhe kanjalo unelungelo ifayile wokuqhawula umtshato kwi ngezizathu zakhe extra-marital budlelwane. Ilungelo kuphila ngesidima mna-intlonipho - umfazi unelungelo ukuphila kwayo ubomi ngesidima kwaye kufuneka enye ukuzonwabisa ukuba wakhe kubayeni kwi-imithetho nalo. Yena kanjalo unelungelo kuba simahla mental kwaye yesitalato torture. Ilungelo isondlo nge umyeni - umfazi banelungelo lokufumana ibango decent abahlala imigangatho ezisisiseko comforts wobomi nge umyeni njengoko kuchaziwe bakhe abaphila imigangatho. Ilungelo umntwana isondlo - Indoda nomfazi kufuneka anike ngenxa yabo encinci umntwana. Ukuba umfazi ngu incapable ka-usamkela ophilayo, umyeni kufuneka anike inkxaso-mali. Ukuba bobabini abazali bamele financially incapable, ngoko ke banako funa uncedo oluvela oomawomkhulu ukugcina umntwana. A encinci umntwana kanjalo unelungelo kufuna ulwahlulo kwi-ancestral ipropati."Uninzi abafazi bafuna baphuncuka a ayiphumelelanga umtshato ayoyika ukuthatha isemthethweni senzo. Kuphela xa imeko uba unbearable ingaba kokuba umthetho ezininzi nje kuncama kwaye umva nabazali babo. Kungcono ukuba lumkela yakho amalungelo noxanduva ukususela ekuqalekeni, kunokuba regret hayi ngokwenza njalo. Emva zonke, ubomi wena gifted ngu ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo ukuba abe waphila ukuze fullest, hayi kuba intlungu ngokusebenzisa kwi cwaka. Ukhe ikhangelwe ngaphandle amazing oluzinzileyo TBI-Shop? Siya kuyo yonke into kufuneka - kwaye yonke into ufuna ukuthenga apha yenza massive nefuthe society nokusingqongileyo. Cofa apha ukuze ukhangele.
